Raising LGBTQ Families

Caring for kids, school resources, coming out to kids, donor siblings, and more.

Queer Parenting in a Cishet World

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Finding Resilience in Tough Times

Awful news seems to dominate lately: A school shooting in Georgia. A trans teen severely beaten in Massachusetts. Hundreds of anti-LGBTQ bills. Violence and war around the world. An uncertain election. Add to this the varied challenges each of us encounters in our daily lives. How do we resist being overwhelmed?

Fighting Daily Bias & Misunderstanding

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Coming Out and Being Out as an LGBTQ Parent

Coming out is often described as a journey. As parents, it’s a journey we take with our children, whether we first come out before or after starting our families. For National Coming Out Day, here’s my story, plus some additional resources on coming out while a parent.

Explaining Our Families to Our Kids

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Dinosaurs, Discrimination, and Tackling Tough Topics With Our Children

This ran in my newspaper column in 2007 but I somehow never posted it here. I think it’s still relevant as we LGBTQ parents and our children navigate issues of difference and bias.

Reflections on Parenthood

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A Roundup for Trans Parent Day

Happy Trans Parent Day to all transgender parents! May it be a time of joy and love. In honor of the occasion, here are some recent readings and a movie that showcase just a few of the many lives of trans parents.

Social Justice

Other Topics

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A Roundup for Trans Parent Day

Happy Trans Parent Day to all transgender parents! May it be a time of joy and love. In honor of the occasion, here are some recent readings and a movie that showcase just a few of the many lives of trans parents.
Special Topics in Being a Parent
The Queer Parent: Everything You Need to Know from Gay to Ze
My Child Is Trans, Now What?
Raising Kids beyond the Binary: Celebrating God's Transgender and Gender-Diverse Children
Rainbow Parenting
Out: A Parent's Guide to Supporting Your LGBTQIA+ Kid Through Coming Out and Beyond
Mama
Frighten the Horses
Talking to My Angels
Late Bloomer
Transister: Raising Twins in a Gender-Bending World
Immaculate Misconception
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