This is the third volume in author Rex Ogle’s graphic memoir, but readers may still enjoy this one, which centers on his coming out, even if they haven’t read the first two. The book opens with protagonist Rex at the start of eighth grade in early 1990s Texas. Everyone else seems to be forming couples, and Rex initially starts dating new girl Charlotte, who caught his attention after defending a classmate from homophobic bullies. He’s also attracted to his childhood friend Drew, though, which makes him wonder if he might be gay—something he knows is frowned upon by peers, his stepfather, and the preacher at his abuela’s church.
Kissing Drew doesn’t end the confusion, especially since Drew, who is okay kissing in private, doesn’t even want to be seen with Rex at school. Rex’s family’s financial insecurity also makes it challenging to fit in with his peers; he doesn’t have money to take anyone on a date, and his clothes are often ill-fitting hand-me-downs. Rex starts babysitting to earn some extra money; his stepfather thinks that’s “a girl’s job,” but Rex is undeterred. With the inspiration of goth girl Nina, who doesn’t care what people think of her, Rex also starts buying himself some clothes that he wants, experimenting with different styles—a key step to growing his self-confidence.
Navigating crushes and friendships is still challenging, and there are heartbreaks, but there are also times of friendship and connection. Rex eventually begins coming out to some of the people in his life, and even stands up for a gay classmate against bullies.
Ogle and illustrator Dave Valeza depict young Rex’s life with empathy and humor, showing joy and empowerment alongside the bittersweet moments. Secondary characters reflect a diversity of identities and opinions, adding substance to this highly recommended tale.
Backmatter includes author and illustrator notes and photos about their own coming out journeys, and a short list of LGBTQ youth resources.
