A fascinating 1988 anthology that brings together essays, poems, fiction, diary entries, letters, and more from lesbian parents (and a few their children) across the U.S. and reflecting a range of racial/ethnic identities. These aren’t all family-creation stories, although there are a few of those; instead, the contributors explore more broadly what it means to be a lesbian and a parent, their individual journeys to identify as both, and the hurdles and happiness they have found along the way. They write of parenthood and parenting, of finding support through partners and community, of everyday moments and joys large and small. While some parts of their experiences feel dated now, they are nevertheless a part of our history; other parts still feel powerfully relevant. The book is only available used, but it’s worth tracking down a copy, both for the serious reflections and for the inspiration of reading passages like that of contributor Karen Anna, who writes, “What’s it like, being a lesbian mother? Is it difficult? Is it challenging? Is it fun? YOU BET! I wouldn’t miss any of it!”
