Kids go to day camp this summer? You might be able to claim the cost as a dependent care expense. My spouse Helen explains how in her latest post for Queercents, and even mentions a possible extra savings because the federal government does not yet recognize marriages of same-sex couples. (Yes, marriage inequality screws us financially in other ways. All the more reason to take advantage of the perks when we can, I say.)
(Reminder: I am not a financial professional. Check with your own before taking or not taking any specific course of action.)