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Zach Wahls. Courtesy Wahls for Iowa.

Finding Courage: Zach Wahls’s Viral Marriage Equality Speech and His Advice for LGBTQ Families Today

In 2011, a 19-year-old named Zach Wahls gave a speech to the Iowa legislature during the state’s marriage equality battles, describing his life with two moms. It went viral, catching national attention. Wahls, now a two-term Iowa state senator running for U.S. Senate, spoke with me for the speech’s 15th anniversary, looking at its impact and offering advice for parents and young people today.

Wahls for US Senate: Celebrating 15 Years of Advocacy

Celebrate 15 Years of Advocacy With Zach Wahls (and Me)

When Zach Wahls was 19, his speech to the Iowa legislature about his two moms helped shift the conversation around marriage equality. Wahls, now a two-term state senator running for U.S. Senate, is marking the speech’s 15th anniversary with a Zoom event next week. I’m one of the speakers, and hope you’ll join us.

Child holding slice of wedding cake

12 Ways to Include Your Children in Your Wedding

When soccer stars Sam Kerr and Kristie Mewis got married last week, their baby was part of the ceremony—which feels like a good excuse to post a revised version of a piece I did many years ago about how couples (particularly queer ones) who already have kids can include them in their weddings.

November 18

Why Is Today One of the Queerest Days of the Year?

November 18 marks at least five notable LGBTQ anniversaries and observances. Do you know them all? (OK, one is purely personal; it’s the “Massaversary” of when my spouse and I made it legal in Massachusetts. But even that is related to another event….)

Two of the plaintiffs in Obergefell, Pam and Nicole Yorksmith, and their child, 2015. Courtesy of Lambda Legal.

A Victory for and by Our Children, Redux

I wrote this piece just after the U.S. Supreme Court legalized marriage equality nationwide on June 26, 2015. I want to reshare it as we approach the 10-year anniversary, as a reminder of why so many of us queer parents and our children fought for marriage—and why marriage equality alone isn’t enough.

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