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November 18

November 18: A Very Queer Day

Today, November 18, marks at least six different notable anniversaries and observances for the LGBTQ community. Do you know them all? (OK, one is purely personal; it’s the “Massaversary” of when my spouse and I made it legal in Massachusetts. But even that is related to another event….)

Lego minifigs holding wedding bouquets

Respect for Marriage Act Passes Congress, But Queer Families Still Need Protections

The Respect for Marriage Act (RMA) has passed the U.S. House and now heads to President Joe Biden for his signature. The RMA is important legislation that clarifies rights and protections for same-sex and interracial marriages—but does not guarantee that all states will continue to let same-sex couples marry. It also does not remove the need for many LGBTQ parents to take additional steps to secure their legal parentage.

Massachusetts marriage equality quote, Chief Justice Margaret Marshall

November 18: the Queerest of Days

Sixteen years ago today, my spouse and I got legally married after 13 years together—three years to the day after the ruling that made Massachusetts the first U.S. state to have marriage equality. And today, the U.S. Senate could act on a bill to ensure that our marriage will remain legal. I can’t believe that’s even in question, but here we are. It’s a propitious date, however, for even more reasons.

Contact Your Senators Right Now About the Respect for Marriage Act

The U.S. Senate could vote this week on the Respect for Marriage Act, legislation that would codify important rights and protections in the face of threats to marriage equality. NOW is the time to contact your senators and urge them to pass this bill. Here’s why and what to do.

LGBTQ Parenting Roundup

LGBTQ Parenting Roundup

We’re full of stories today: personal stories of forming families, reflections from grown children of LGBTQ parents, and the political stories impacting LGBTQ parents and our children. Have a read of what I haven’t covered elsewhere.

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