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The Mombian LGBTQ Parental Names Project

What Kids Call Their LGBTQ Parents (2026 Update)

What do kids call their LGBTQ parents? Many affirming, creative, and wonderful names! Here are some of the hundreds of names, plus the stories behind them, from the Mombian LGBTQ Parental Names Project, which I’ve been running since 2011. Have a look and add your own!

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Guest Post: What LGBTQ Families Should Know Before Starting the Surrogacy Journey

I’m pleased to bring you a guest post today by Kelly Enders-Tharp of Growing Generations, a surrogacy and gamete donation agency that for 30 years has helped LGBTQ people and others to become parents. She offers a helpful overview of what LGBTQ parents may expect in the surrogacy process and some tips for getting started.

AllPaths Family Building Podcast

Listen to the “AllPaths Podcast” for the Story of My Family and Mombian

I had the pleasure of speaking recently with the AllPaths podcast about how my now-spouse and I started our family via reciprocal IVF in the early aughts, why I founded Mombian shortly afterwards and how it’s grown, the state of LGBTQ+ family building today, LGBTQ Families Day, and more. I hope you’ll have a listen!

COLAGE Chief Policy Officer Meg York. Courtesy of Meg York.

Shifting the Narrative Through the Voices of People With LGBTQ Parents

LGBTQ families have long been the subject of policy debates—but the voices of youth and adults with LGBTQ parents have not always been heard. COLAGE, the national organization dedicated to uniting and supporting people with LGBTQ parents, is ramping up its efforts to change that.

Hands holding rainbow heart

Legally Protecting Your LGBTQ Family in 2026

A new year offers new motivation to set goals and make changes. For LGBTQ families, one of the most important goals should be to ensure our parent-child relationships are as legally secure as possible.

Child holding slice of wedding cake

12 Ways to Include Your Children in Your Wedding

When soccer stars Sam Kerr and Kristie Mewis got married last week, their baby was part of the ceremony—which feels like a good excuse to post a revised version of a piece I did many years ago about how couples (particularly queer ones) who already have kids can include them in their weddings.

LGBTQ-Inclusive Winter Holiday Books

17 LGBTQ-Inclusive Kids’ Books About the Winter Holidays

Looking for LGBTQ-inclusive kids’ books about the winter holidays? Check out these picture books—including two brand-new ones for Christmas and Hanukkah—plus a few middle grade titles that would also make great family read-alouds for younger children!

November 18

Why Is Today One of the Queerest Days of the Year?

November 18 marks at least five notable LGBTQ anniversaries and observances. Do you know them all? (OK, one is purely personal; it’s the “Massaversary” of when my spouse and I made it legal in Massachusetts. But even that is related to another event….)

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