All of Us, Every One of Us

I’m posting below (with permission) an op-ed by Matt Foreman, Executive Director of the National Gay and Lesbian Task Force. In it, he brings us up to date with what NGLTF has been doing to push for a version of the Employment Non-Discrimination Act (ENDA) that includes protections for gender identity and expression.

Not all in the community feel as Foreman does, however, which is why ENDA has become the hot issue among LGBT activists for the past few weeks. For contrasting opinions, see the columns by Susan Ryan-Vollmar and Richard Rosendall in Bay Windows. (See also the Guest Opinion in Bay Windows by members of the Massachusetts Transgender Political Coalition, which agrees with Foreman.)

I fall into the camp of supporting an inclusive ENDA, even though I understand that sometimes tactical expediency must trump ideals in order to achieve the long-term strategy. When that expediency requires what is seen as a betrayal of part of the community for which we are fighting, however, the picture is less clear. To me, the price of a fractured community is too much to pay, especially when it is still uncertain if even a sexual-orientation-only ENDA would become law.

Still, this is not a game like poker, where we must play the cards we’re dealt or hope that luck brings us better ones. It’s a fight, dirty and dynamic, changing by the minute. We need to stop laying blame on Representative Barney Frank and HRC (however much we may think they deserve it) and instead figure out how to work with them given the current situation. The real opponents are those on the far right. The real opponents are the employers who discriminate, for any reason. There’s no easy solution, but we’re more likely to find it if we stay focused on the real problem.

Here’s what Foreman has to say:

All of us, every one of us
By Matt Foreman, Executive Director
National Gay and Lesbian Task Force

matt_foreman.jpgAt this critical moment in our efforts to pass an Employment Non-Discrimination Act (ENDA) that includes transgender people under its protections, it is important to recall just why so many of us believe that no one can be left behind.

The last five days have been a grueling and defining moment in our movement’s history. When we learned that protections for transgender people would be stripped from ENDA, an unprecedented groundswell of anger, energy and determination rose up to reverse that decision.

The other day, a letter signed by more than 300 national and state advocacy organizations that work on behalf of lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender (LGBT) people was delivered to Congress, asking for more time to garner support for ENDA as it was originally introduced. Some 2,500 congregations were asked to activate their memberships to call Congress. Students are also calling and e-mailing Congress and launching Facebook accounts to build support, working from 120 LGBT campus resource centers. Action alerts, blog postings and opinion pieces supporting a trans-inclusive ENDA have been flying over the Internet.

We at the National Gay and Lesbian Task Force are immensely proud to be part of this moment. Our staff mounts a full-court press in the halls of Congress, on the telephones and over e-mail, to convince our congressional leaders that separating transgender people from the rest of us is unacceptable and unsupportable.

Why have we all worked so hard together and in such a dramatic way over this issue? For over a decade, the Task Force, and increasingly our organizational colleagues, has re-embraced transgender friends, family and colleagues as part of our community and part of our movement for freedom and equality. We believe the social disapproval and punishment of LGBT people varies only by degree. Yes, we can be fired if we identify ourselves as lesbian, gay or bisexual. But it isn’t always about who we love; sometimes it’s about a refusal or inability to disguise ourselves — “pass” — as heterosexual.

The freedom to express ourselves and be ourselves is at stake when any one of us is punished and persecuted for stepping outside the rigid rules of gender conformity. Lesbians, gay men and bisexual people historically engage a whole range of dress and behaviors that challenge the traditional gender code. Women who are too masculine and men who are too feminine often suffer job discrimination and harassment at work, just as our transgender sisters and brothers do.

Two women loving each other, two men loving each other, men and women who may love either men or women, and people who self-define their gender identity or expression all challenge and change gender-based assumptions and expectations. Centuries of formal state-sponsored and informal cultural oppression show that none of us are intended to exist, to thrive and to enjoy good and long lives.

There is no more fundamental human right for all of us than to be free to love and live as our minds and hearts guide us. But what is the value of freedom if we can’t get and keep a job, something we all need to make for ourselves a decent life?

Discrimination at work hits transgender people particularly hard. A survey conducted in Washington, D.C., shows that 60 percent of transgender respondents report either no source of income or incomes of less than $10,000 per year, a clear indication of the desperate need for employment protections for transgender people. Employment discrimination undeniably erodes the freedoms of transgender people, and all the rest of us, to live as we know we must.

Uncounted numbers of LGBT people courageously refuse to live a lie. This basic need to live fully as the people we know we are — loving someone of the same sex or transforming one’s self to express the other long-sought gender — forms the foundation of our very movement for freedom and equality. Just as we would oppose any legislation that cut out lesbians or gay men from needed protections, we oppose the re-drafted ENDA that excludes gender identity. We dream that all of us, every one of us, will some day be able to be and tell others who we are, each minute of every day, and not face punishment, prosecution or persecution.

A groundswell of support for a trans-inclusive ENDA, resounding across this entire country, cannot be ignored. We call on congressional leaders and all people of compassion and good will to work harder to win passage of a federal law that protects LGBT people in the workplace so that every one of us can simply live.

3 thoughts on “All of Us, Every One of Us”

  1. “I understand that sometimes tactical expediency must trump ideals in order to achieve the long-term strategy. When that expediency requires what is seen as a betrayal of part of the community for which we are fighting, however, the picture is less clear. To me, the price of a fractured community is too much to pay, especially when it is still uncertain if even a sexual-orientation-only ENDA would become law.”

    I agree with you on most of this, except the last sentence above. There is NO WAY this bill would pass the Senate. The hate crimes vote was won on one vote and that is a slam dunk issue. As the transgender person with a gay son, I don’t want to hold this legislation up. If it was a matter of us sinking passage of this bill into law, I’d say leave us off. But that isn’t the case. We have almost two years to do the kind of advocacy that’s been done in the last week and a half. If after that time gender inclusion still causes the bill to sink, I’ll be the first one to jump overboard so it will pass.

    To simply throw us overboard for passage in the house, with no chance of passage into law is cruel and divisive.

  2. >> To simply throw us overboard for passage in the house, with no chance of passage into law is cruel and divisive.

    I fully agree–and I could have been stronger in stating how unlikely, if not impossible, it will be for ENDA, even without gender-identity and -expression protections, to become law. I’m still rather baffled by why Frank, et al. removed the gender clauses–did they really believe it would have a chance of becoming law if they threw gender overboard or did they simply want to move it through the House so they could take credit for pushing it as far as possible?

    Thanks for offering your perspective–you’re the only transgender person I’ve heard say they’d leave off gender if it meant passing the bill into law. I think ultimately, it’s going to be people like yourself, who have insight into both the transgender and gay, non-transgender perspectives, who will help the LGBT community bridge the gaps in understanding we’ve seen these past few weeks (but that have been around for much longer).

  3. Frank’s never been for trans-inclusion. I’m writing about it now, but he’s always been against it. The only reason it’s in there now is because every org that wrote the language had trans inclusive language.

    As far as leaving us off, yes…of course! We aren’t selfish. We understand political realities. But throwing us over the side simply for a hollow vote is senseless.

    I don’t think Frank realized how the community has gelled over the past 3 years. Many transgender people have stood toe to toe with gays and lesbians in the fight for marriage equality. Doing this has created alliances that aren’t easily broken.

    It’s one of the most beautiful things in all this bad stuff. To see such unity, at times it brings me to tears.

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