Selves and Identities

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Queering Halloween

October is LGBTQ History Month and includes National Coming Out Day, Spirit Day, Ace Week, and Intersex Awareness Day. By Halloween, my head is abuzz with ways to support and sustain our multifaceted queer selves. Here’s how the spookiest day of the year can bring it all together.

15 Kids' Books, Songs, and Games About Pronouns

15 Kids’ Books, Songs, and Games About Pronouns

It’s International Pronouns Day, so once again, I’m rounding up some great kids’ books, music, and games all about pronouns, including several that are new this year—for you and her and him and them!

Dana Rudolph and family. Photo (c) Dana Rudolph

One Tyke and You’re Out

Even though I was out before becoming a parent, having a kid meant being out to people I would never have shared anything with, about my queerness or otherwise. One toddler call of “Mommy and Mama!” in the supermarket, however, and everyone could see our rainbow halo.

Some artifacts of lesbian mom history

For International Lesbian Day: Some Highlights of Lesbian Mom History

For International Lesbian Day and LGBTQ History Month, here are some fun moments of lesbian mom history to know and share! (This is an enhanced version of a piece I posted for Lesbian Visibility Day in April; clearly lesbians are so awesome that we need two holidays to celebrate!)

Suit and tie. Photo: Markus Spiske via Unsplash.

Gender and Role Models: One Queer Parent’s Perspective

A number of years ago, a mainstream journalist asked me, “Are you worried about providing male role models for your son?” Here’s the piece I wrote about my answer, which I’m pulling from the archives and freshening up a bit.

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