Holidays

Tree and menorah

Of Food, Festivals, and Family

My family of origin always has our biggest gathering on Thanksgiving. My spouse Helen, our son, and I pretty much party from then until Helen’s birthday in early January, marking Hanukkah, Christmas, and New Year’s along the way.

LGBTQ Christmas Books

LGBTQ-Inclusive Christmas Books for Kids

Looking for LGBTQ-inclusive Christmas books to read with your children? There aren’t many, but they do exist. Check them out (and learn why we still need more)!

Dreidels

The Dreidel Song: A Very Queer Rewrite

Hanukkah starts this Sunday evening, which means I’m in a bit of a mood as I’m getting ready. I give to you all, therefore, a very queer rewrite of the classic Hanukkah song, “I Had a Little Dreidel.” Enjoy (and leave another verse, if you’re so inspired)!

LGBTQ-Inclusive Children's Books 2018

2018 Gift Guide to LGBTQ-Inclusive Children’s and Middle-Grade Books

It’s time for my annual roundup of some of this year’s best LGBTQ-inclusive children’s and middle-grade books and magazine! It was a banner year for such books in many ways, with a high overall volume and a surge in the often neglected middle-grade range.

Turkey Baster

Happy (Almost) Turkey Baster Day!

I know, I know. Few of us who used assisted reproduction really wielded turkey basters. But to me, Thanksgiving is about family—the one I came from and the one my spouse and I created—-so the iconic if erroneous turkey baster is as good a symbol as any.

Spirit Day

Spirit Day: Speak Out Against Bullying and for LGBTQ Youth

Today is Spirit Day, GLAAD’s annual event to speak out against anti-LGBTQ bullying and stand with LGBTQ youth, who disproportionately face bullying and harassment. Our nation’s leader continues to set an example of a bully in action, making events like Spirit Day—and the actions they can inspire all year long—more critical than ever.

Rainbow ABC

An Alphabet of Pride

Pride Month is 30 days long, but the energy and inspiration we gain from it can last all year. Here, then, are some of the things I hope we LGBTQ parents can all experience during this season of rainbows to sustain us in times to come.

Father and Son

Happy Father’s Day to All Who Celebrate

Happy Father’s Day to all of you who are fathers, have fathers in your lives, or use Father’s Day to celebrate one of the parents in your family in whatever fashion works for you. Here are some things I like to keep in mind as a lesbian mom on Father’s Day.

#LGBTQFamiliesDay

Join Me in Showing Pride for Our Families

Happy Pride, all! As parents, we know what pride is from the moment we first see our children. As LGBTQ people and/or their children, we also know what Pride is. In celebration of both kinds of pride, please join me and Family Equality Council on Monday, June 4, for #LGBTQFamiliesDay! Here are the simple ways to get involved!

U.S. Flag

Memorial Day Reflections

We celebrate our fallen dead with barbecues and sales here in the United States. Sometimes there are parades and ceremonies, but often it’s just chicken, burgers, and the best prices of the year.

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