Raising LGBTQ Families

Caring for kids, school resources, coming out to kids, donor siblings, and more.

Queer Parenting in a Cishet World

Finger pointing

Homophobia, Perfection, and Pressure on Kids of LGBTQ Parents

One of the best pieces I’ve read this week is by a man who explains “How homophobia turned me against my gay mother.” Spoiler alert: He turned back—and in doing so, offers some very useful advice for all of us LGBTQ parents.
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Reflections on Parenthood

Mountain view - photo by Dana Rudolph

Looking Back from a Milestone

My son finished elementary school this month, and while he seems to be approaching the idea of middle school with aplomb (or at least with the casual coolness of which 11-year-olds seem capable), I’m having a bad case of nostalgia right now. We’re at a family milestone, but I remind myself that such milestones are

Social Justice

Black and white gradient

Of Parenting and Privilege

I had an encounter with the police a few weeks ago. I am an avid cyclist, and had a flat while on a ride, about 15 miles from home. I was struggling to change my tire when a local officer drove by, stopped to see if I needed help, and offered to drive me to

Other Topics

Pulse Memorial, Orlando

Of Hate and Hope: Explaining the Pulse Massacre to My Son

I first wrote this in 2016, shortly after the shooting at the Pulse nightclub in Orlando that killed 49 mostly Latine, LGBTQ young people. Seven years later, I am reposting it as a reminder to remember, to teach, and to act.

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